Sunday, April 26, 2026

20160426 清明? In Loving Memory…


April is the Qing Ming Month!
Remembering our late parents and some loved friends who had “migrated” first 
Some departed 30 years or more. And some just under 2 years.

Visiting crematorium niches is not my usual physical routine. Because I always believe in memories in my heart. Those good old times when we were together. The shared moments of joy and griefs. That holds the memories. 

I believe in “ afterlife. “

I believe in a Heavenly mansion prepared for those who know Jesus. So in reverse I also believe in Hell. 

I believe in Revelation - the heavenly city above where there is no more sickness and pain. 

Will there be massages in heaven? I used to ask? Because I enjoy the kneading routine in my second home in JB now weekly. Play hard. Body ache hard too! 😂 

At what age would I be when I get to heaven I asked too?
Will unborn babes be still unborn state up above?

Will I recognise my grand parents or great great grands whom I had not even met ?

Will I get to see my beloved Peggy dog above too?

Questions. 
Questions. 
Questions 

As one age, the more I will be attending more wakes than weddings.  Well , this is the journey of life. 

In deep reflections ….reminiscing   

Arh arh!!! April ! No wonder!!! aHHHHHHH!
 



Saturday, April 25, 2026

20260425- 搀扶 35 years of marriage!




 25/4/26:-

Hmm. Decided to record this song this morning 

《搀扶》 (Chan Fu) is a heartfelt song originally written and performed by 马健涛 (Ma Jiantao), who is both the composer and lyricist.

Theme: The song conveys themes of love, support, and companionship, with "搀扶" (meaning "to support someone physically or emotionally") symbolizing unwavering care in relationships.

This song is one of John’s favourite! Only came to know it early this year actually. 

Come next mth? Celebrating 35 years of marriage ! In gratitude to Him who love us. 

But this song is more than this. It applies to all relationships. GOd is love. And Love is God. May we cherish and support all our loved ones around us. Till death do us part. 

We have only one life. Make it work. Cherish. Moments. Love. ❤️ The greatest of all from the One who gave us all !

A recording by Mui this morning.

******

THE SONG!


搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

多年前我牵了你的手

从此后我们风雨同路走

下雨了我为你撑伞

衣服破了你帮我缝上

一转眼就过许多年

我的脸布满了沧桑

你的眼被皱纹写满

你的美依然在我心田

搀扶你的手到永久

相约今生会一起走

今生我们还没爱够

死后也要葬在一个山头

搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

一转眼就过许多年

我的脸布满了沧桑

你的眼被皱纹写满

你的美依然在我心田

搀扶你的手到永久

相约今生会一起走

今生我们还没爱够

死后也要葬在一个山头

搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

搀扶你的手到永久

相约今生会一起走

今生我们还没爱够

死后也要葬在一个山头

搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

另外一个时空再相守[1]


Translate to English

This is the lyrics to 《搀扶》 Chān Fú “Supporting Each Other” by 姜育恒 Jiang Yuheng, a classic Mandarin love song about growing old together. 


Here’s the English translation, keeping the poetic feel:


---


Supporting you, who cares if heaven isn’t long and earth doesn’t last  

Don’t cry, because I’m here to guard you  

One day when we can’t walk anymore  

We’ll be together again in another time and space


Many years ago I took your hand  

From then on, we walked through wind and rain together  

When it rained, I held the umbrella for you  

When my clothes tore, you mended them for me


In the blink of an eye, so many years have passed  

My face is now covered with the marks of time  

Your eyes are filled with wrinkles  

But your beauty still lives in my heart


I’ll hold your hand forever  

We promised in this life to walk together  

In this life, we haven’t loved enough  

After death, we’ll be buried on the same hill


Supporting you, who cares if heaven isn’t long and earth doesn’t last  

Don’t cry, because I’m here to guard you  

One day when we can’t walk anymore  

We’ll be together again in another time and space


[Verse repeats]


I’ll hold your hand forever  

We promised in this life to walk together  

In this life, we haven’t loved enough  

After death, we’ll be buried on the same hill


Supporting you, who cares if heaven isn’t long and earth doesn’t last  

Don’t cry, because I’m here to guard you  

One day when we can’t walk anymore  

We’ll be together again in another time and space  

We’ll be together again in another time and space


---


Key phrases explained:

搀扶 chān fú = To support by the arm, help walk. Shows elderly couples caring for each other.

天不长地不久 = Even if heaven and earth don’t last forever. Means “even if time isn’t eternal.”

风雨同路 = Walk the same road through wind and rain. Means “through thick and thin.”

葬在一个山头 = Buried on the same hill. Ultimate vow — together even in death.


It’s basically the musical version of 神仙眷侶,琴瑟和鳴 we just talked about — lifelong love that goes beyond death.


Thursday, April 23, 2026

20260423 A Thermomix Fellowship @ FC

 

OH what a Thermomix Chef Amy was!

She cooked up a storm for us tennis players!




What a feast with this small equipment!
Thanks to Amy!
**********

VIdeo of feast!



Tuesday, April 7, 2026

20260406 A Day Tour to Forest city again





 Think I am getting better and better with the JB tourist promotion! a good chauffeur J and a good planner P!

So did all have a good time?

Ha Ha. a surprise blast 💥 at the end of the night with the left over of a CNY box of fireworks! 

May Your Dreams Come true! BIg blast!


*******************

THe complete day tour that includes B,L and dinner plus Kota Iskandar and Forest City sight seeing plus a massage and a little shopping at Indah plus the fireworks display! All under $50 per head with petrol cost in! YAy!




Friday, March 20, 2026

20260318 Mui song#11 : Guard Your Heart ( Wars)


 19/3/26
Iran war entering day 19.
Was thinking about wars and rumors or war. 
And whether Bibi was really dead or just a rumor?
Bombed here and here
Kill you here and there
An eye for an eye now…

Matt 24 Prov 4 & 2 Chron 16:9 keep circling in my little brain. Lyrics were mine but music was helped by the AI. 😂 

Getting better at disciphering chords! Cos lately been learning the piano with this YouTuber called Melanie Pianist. She is good! Love her simple 15-16 min step by step piano stuff! So now getting better with piano fills. 😂 

Well well. A new 11th song by Mui mui!

**************




Tuesday, March 17, 2026

20260312 - A 61 Merdeka KLcelebration By E Train!














 15/3/26:-
On the E train now from KL to JB by 3 pm ish. This time on the standard seat at RM105:)

Some little reflections on this “Omakase “ KL 4D3N trip? Celebration of 61 is not the main reason actually.  It was more of a try out at their new Electric train and a visit to their latest second tallest building @ 118.  And of course to meet aunty & cousin and friends and John’s Canada uni mate. 

Omakase indeed. Well it turned out pretty adventurous not knowing what to really expect. 

1. Did the E train experience 
2. ⁠Went up to the 98th of Merdeka 118 as the viewing gallery was yet to be opened. 
3. ⁠Had the most expensive buffet at Park Hyatt on 98 spending $118! For the dinner buffet :( but omakase? Enjoyed the lights out at 9pm for the aerial night view from this 118. 😂 paid for the view!
4.First time walking at their Perdana Botanic gardens ( section 3 of their Warisan KL initiative). And just found out it was slightly bigger than our Botanic in 🔴! Have been to Manhattan Park in NY but thot ours was prettier than 🇺🇸. Well KL’s not bad too 
5. ⁠KL MRT starting fare is RM1.20. Not LRT and what was good? They have a “ladies  carriage “ where NO Men can enter! Yah! Wo-men power!
6. ⁠Lesson learnt? Never take Grab during peak hours. When we arrived at 5pm - we took 40min from KL Sentral to our Four Points Sheraton @ Chinatown. Rm28! But this morning - it took us only RM6 in 8min!!!! Should have taken that MRT to Pasar Seni stop just few stations away! Well well…ha ha ha
7. ⁠Omakase city walk! Thanks to our Frankie Wendy friends. They too became tourists cos this new KL City Gallery was just opened last mth! They too wanted to have a peep! From Petaling street we headed to Central Market. ( was there 25 years ago…) Now so transformed. Great artisan and handicrafts stuff! From there we went to Mederka Square area where all the Colonial buildings were recently restored.  Part of their Warisan KL initiative. ( really like our Padang art gallery area). Impressive on the inside and outside. It is Ramadan. So less crowded. Choose the correct time to visit Malaysia! ramanda is their low season! Good for tourists!!! 😂 
8. ⁠Omakase Sungai wang for the Miniature Malaysia! Really impressed ! GOod overview of Malaysia states and history in 3D miniatures!

We did not cover all the places in all the 3 sections. Think the night walks would be pretty to behold. 

Wanted to go to the Luge which is 1.5 hours away from KL. No time. Perhaps next time?

This trip seemed a little different from previous trips. For those of us who came to KL for KP wedding? Think can come again after 2 years. This time? By E train for the experience. Pretty smooth and cool. No fear of lack of toilets and leg stretches!

VErdict : 4/5 stars or 5/5 also can ! ❤️

**************
The E Train Video!

The Mederka 118 Evening Video

THe Miniature Malaysia @ Sungai Wang!

THe Perdana KL Botanic Gardensb

THe Central Market Video

THe Bangunan Sultan Abdul Samad ( City Gallery)!

MUI 61! YEAH!!






Monday, March 16, 2026

20260309 Digging Patience!



 Finally on 10/3/26, we found the leaking pipe!

Originally the plumber wanted to give up! His hired men kept flying his plane:(. So he had to do the manual hard work of digging !

It was tough. Finally … the patience paid off. 

The leak was so tiny. Cannot see it with the naked eye eye except when we turn on the tap and the water gushed out!


Reflections

A tiny hole can cause so much leakage. Both in water and the $. 
MONEY flows like a river! GOsh!

But glad that this leaking episode is finally over!
🙌 
HOORAY!

Thank God for hearing our prayers!

20160426 清明? In Loving Memory…

April is the Qing Ming Month! Remembering our late parents and some loved friends who had “migrated” first  Some departed 30 years or more. ...