Sunday, April 26, 2026

20160426 清明? In Loving Memory…


April is the Qing Ming Month!
Remembering our late parents and some loved friends who had “migrated” first 
Some departed 30 years or more. And some just under 2 years.

Visiting crematorium niches is not my usual physical routine. Because I always believe in memories in my heart. Those good old times when we were together. The shared moments of joy and griefs. That holds the memories. 

I believe in “ afterlife. “

I believe in a Heavenly mansion prepared for those who know Jesus. So in reverse I also believe in Hell. 

I believe in Revelation - the heavenly city above where there is no more sickness and pain. 

Will there be massages in heaven? I used to ask? Because I enjoy the kneading routine in my second home in JB now weekly. Play hard. Body ache hard too! 😂 

At what age would I be when I get to heaven I asked too?
Will unborn babes be still unborn state up above?

Will I recognise my grand parents or great great grands whom I had not even met ?

Will I get to see my beloved Peggy dog above too?

Questions. 
Questions. 
Questions 

As one age, the more I will be attending more wakes than weddings.  Well , this is the journey of life. 

In deep reflections ….reminiscing   

Arh arh!!! April ! No wonder!!! aHHHHHHH!
 



Saturday, April 25, 2026

20260425- 搀扶 35 years of marriage!




 25/4/26:-

Hmm. Decided to record this song this morning 

《搀扶》 (Chan Fu) is a heartfelt song originally written and performed by 马健涛 (Ma Jiantao), who is both the composer and lyricist.

Theme: The song conveys themes of love, support, and companionship, with "搀扶" (meaning "to support someone physically or emotionally") symbolizing unwavering care in relationships.

This song is one of John’s favourite! Only came to know it early this year actually. 

Come next mth? Celebrating 35 years of marriage ! In gratitude to Him who love us. 

But this song is more than this. It applies to all relationships. GOd is love. And Love is God. May we cherish and support all our loved ones around us. Till death do us part. 

We have only one life. Make it work. Cherish. Moments. Love. ❤️ The greatest of all from the One who gave us all !

A recording by Mui this morning.

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THE SONG!


搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

多年前我牵了你的手

从此后我们风雨同路走

下雨了我为你撑伞

衣服破了你帮我缝上

一转眼就过许多年

我的脸布满了沧桑

你的眼被皱纹写满

你的美依然在我心田

搀扶你的手到永久

相约今生会一起走

今生我们还没爱够

死后也要葬在一个山头

搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

一转眼就过许多年

我的脸布满了沧桑

你的眼被皱纹写满

你的美依然在我心田

搀扶你的手到永久

相约今生会一起走

今生我们还没爱够

死后也要葬在一个山头

搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

搀扶你的手到永久

相约今生会一起走

今生我们还没爱够

死后也要葬在一个山头

搀扶管它天不长地不久

别哭因为有我把你守

有一天我们走不动了

另外一个时空再相守

另外一个时空再相守[1]


Translate to English

This is the lyrics to 《搀扶》 Chān Fú “Supporting Each Other” by 姜育恒 Jiang Yuheng, a classic Mandarin love song about growing old together. 


Here’s the English translation, keeping the poetic feel:


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Supporting you, who cares if heaven isn’t long and earth doesn’t last  

Don’t cry, because I’m here to guard you  

One day when we can’t walk anymore  

We’ll be together again in another time and space


Many years ago I took your hand  

From then on, we walked through wind and rain together  

When it rained, I held the umbrella for you  

When my clothes tore, you mended them for me


In the blink of an eye, so many years have passed  

My face is now covered with the marks of time  

Your eyes are filled with wrinkles  

But your beauty still lives in my heart


I’ll hold your hand forever  

We promised in this life to walk together  

In this life, we haven’t loved enough  

After death, we’ll be buried on the same hill


Supporting you, who cares if heaven isn’t long and earth doesn’t last  

Don’t cry, because I’m here to guard you  

One day when we can’t walk anymore  

We’ll be together again in another time and space


[Verse repeats]


I’ll hold your hand forever  

We promised in this life to walk together  

In this life, we haven’t loved enough  

After death, we’ll be buried on the same hill


Supporting you, who cares if heaven isn’t long and earth doesn’t last  

Don’t cry, because I’m here to guard you  

One day when we can’t walk anymore  

We’ll be together again in another time and space  

We’ll be together again in another time and space


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Key phrases explained:

搀扶 chān fú = To support by the arm, help walk. Shows elderly couples caring for each other.

天不长地不久 = Even if heaven and earth don’t last forever. Means “even if time isn’t eternal.”

风雨同路 = Walk the same road through wind and rain. Means “through thick and thin.”

葬在一个山头 = Buried on the same hill. Ultimate vow — together even in death.


It’s basically the musical version of 神仙眷侶,琴瑟和鳴 we just talked about — lifelong love that goes beyond death.


Thursday, April 23, 2026

20260423 A Thermomix Fellowship @ FC

 

OH what a Thermomix Chef Amy was!

She cooked up a storm for us tennis players!




What a feast with this small equipment!
Thanks to Amy!
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VIdeo of feast!



Tuesday, April 7, 2026

20260406 A Day Tour to Forest city again





 Think I am getting better and better with the JB tourist promotion! a good chauffeur J and a good planner P!

So did all have a good time?

Ha Ha. a surprise blast 💥 at the end of the night with the left over of a CNY box of fireworks! 

May Your Dreams Come true! BIg blast!


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THe complete day tour that includes B,L and dinner plus Kota Iskandar and Forest City sight seeing plus a massage and a little shopping at Indah plus the fireworks display! All under $50 per head with petrol cost in! YAy!




20160426 清明? In Loving Memory…

April is the Qing Ming Month! Remembering our late parents and some loved friends who had “migrated” first  Some departed 30 years or more. ...